The Evolution of Calgary's Gay Bar Scene: A Look Back and What's Next

Remember the days when stepping into a gay bar felt like entering another world? A sanctuary where you could truly be yourself, surrounded by community and acceptance?

I do. My own exploration of Calgary's gay nightlife began thanks to some straight friends nudging me out from behind my computer screen. They wanted me to experience the vibrant, real-world gay community firsthand. What followed was an eye-opening tour of Calgary's iconic gay bars, each with its own unique flavor and contribution to the city's LGBTQ+ landscape.

But how much has changed, and what does the future hold?

From Detours to Drag Stages: A Nostalgic Trip Down Memory Lane

Our first stop was Detours, a bar with a history as colorful as the community it served. Before Detours, the space next door was Empire, which later became Arena.

Arena was a revelation - its multi-level layout offered prime viewing of the most incredible drag shows Alberta had to offer. Imagine a three-tiered space: a bustling main floor, a sophisticated mezzanine, and a DJ booth and lounge perched above it all. The stage itself was strategically positioned, with a catwalk extending into the audience.

Detours also had the Loading Dock, a cozy lounge perfect for happy hour. While its time was short-lived, Detours had potential. It makes you wonder, what made some bars last and others fade away?

Boyztown Metro and the Rekroom: Finding Home in a Crowd

Moving on, we ventured to Boyztown Metro and the Rekroom.

Back then, these spots were the place to be. No matter where you wanted to go, you had to push your way through a sea of people. Boyztown, now the Nite Owl, felt different. It was home. It was the place where you could find kindred spirits. If you were transgender, a drag queen, or simply enjoyed expressing yourself through fashion, this bar welcomed you with open arms.

The owners fostered a safe and accepting environment where people could simply be themselves. Isn't that what we all want?

The truth is, many members of the LGBTQ+ community just want to live authentically. They don't want to live in fear, they just want to be happy.

Is that so wrong? As acceptance grows, spaces evolve.

Breaking Down Barriers: Introducing Mom to the Community

Coming out to my mom was a big step. But I wanted her to understand my life, my friends, my community. So, I took her to those gay bars.

I introduced her to the owners and the patrons, holding my breath, wondering how she would react. Would she be overwhelmed? Or would she see the people I loved and respected for who they truly were?

Thankfully, it was the latter. It opened her mind, and it showed me the power of bridging divides through shared experiences.

It made me realize that creating inclusive spaces isn't just about physical locations, but about fostering understanding and connection.

Edmonton's Scene: The Roost, Boots, and Beyond

Venturing north to Edmonton opened up a whole new world of gay nightlife.

The Roost, with its two floors and expansive patio, was a landmark. Uniquely, it even had a deli at the entrance, so you could grab a bite while you socialized. Boots, almost as old as the Roost, was another favorite. With its Garage Burger, multiple award winner, and events catering to the Bear and leather communities, and drag shows, Boots was my go-to spot in Edmonton.

And then there was Prism Bar, which I believe was the last lesbian bar in Canada. It was so sad to see Prism go, and it makes you wonder if we're losing something as these spaces disappear?

The Junction and Evolution Wonderlounge: New Chapters and Celebrations

When Boots closed, the owners of Prism rebranded and moved into the Boots space, creating The Junction.

Though separate entrances, the bars were still run by the same owners. Now, Evolution Wonderlounge continues to thrive, hosting video interviews with porn stars and celebrity drag queens, while celebrating their fourth anniversary. With Edmonton's vibrant scene, there's always something new and exciting happening.

The Shifting Sands: Why Gay Bars Are Changing

Just as technology evolves, so does the gay bar scene.

Some closures are economic, some due to market correction, some lack of demand, or leases getting too high. Fierce competition from other gay bars can also play a role. And sometimes, it's simply a matter of bad management or failing to keep up with the changing tastes of the community.

It's not as simple as painting the walls dark and playing dance music anymore!

The rise of dating apps like Grindr, Scruff, and Growlr has undoubtedly changed the landscape. People can now connect instantly, finding community members in straight bars or private settings.

But with mainstream media rapidly changing, is there still the same need for niche media?

Inclusivity and Acceptance: A Double-Edged Sword

Straight bars are now opening their doors to the LGBTQ+ community, while gay bars are reciprocating.

Remember when Boyztown and the Rekroom were male-only, with women only allowed as guests? They started allowing women as members, recognizing that true inclusivity means breaking down those barriers. Acceptance is growing with the younger generation coming out earlier and gaining the acceptance of friends.

Where as the older generations were hidden. But this growing acceptance and inclusiveness has led to a decrease in the number of LGBTQ+ people feeling the need to go out to dedicated spaces.

The Future of Gay Bars: Adaptation and Evolution

While some in the LGBTQ+ community miss having their own dedicated spaces, the demand simply isn't always there.

But even amidst closures and changing trends, some bars have found a way to thrive.

The Texas Lounge, for example, has been a fixture for nearly 30 years, and new ownership eight years ago helped keep the brand fresh, updating the attached bathhouse, Goliaths.

The Backlot has also undergone ownership changes, with extensive renovations and an amazing outdoor patio. As of February 1st, Twisted Element is under new ownership and management. Unlike the Texas Lounge and The Backlot, the new owners of Twisted have taken a hands-off approach, entrusting day-to-day operations to bar manager Keon Brawn.

We can expect coverage of more events and a renewed energy. All this proves how important it is to adapt and evolve to remain relevant.

So, what will the gay bar scene look like in the next five to ten years? Only time will tell. But one thing is certain: the LGBTQ+ community will continue to find ways to connect, celebrate, and create spaces where everyone can feel welcome and seen.

Check out the GayCalgary website for articles we have done with many of the gay bar owners past or present.

Here's to the next chapter!